Wendy, I was thinking of you all throughout the NLCS — which was, from start to finish, anyone’s Series, by the way! You almost had me thinkin'. Was sampled in 6 songs see all. And then, at about the same time, things did start to break our way. It sharpens your skills, keeps you hungry (figuratively this time). I’m sure the lion’s share go on a low-priority to-do list before getting buried under a pile of incoming unsolicited manuscripts until they’re eventually forgotten about altogether. Dam right, I would. So they spring to anger when challenged — they’re utterly incapable of engaging in meaningful intellectual debate on any of this stuff — and they clutch ever-tighter to their nihilistic worldview. Almost made you happy, baby. Almost made you happy, baby. In the Car Interlude. How is it, exactly, Indiana Jones is such a celebrated hero when he returns from EVERY adventure empty-handed? — the very practices and ideologies we later came to codify as “the American Dream,” that have now put civilization in an existential crisis. Almost doesn't count. Having taken my Hollywood adventure as far as it could go, out of chances and (more or less) out of friends, I confronted it myself a few years ago, with a bulky sack full of “almosts” slung over my back. When I lie on my death bed, it won’t matter at all. It’s not fun. And when you see that happen over and over and over again, particularly when you yourself have been struggling to get a foothold in the industry, you get very cynical about the whole business. The Dodgers’ reentry into the World Series this fall, and the collective hope it kindled of their first world-championship win in precisely three decades, coincided with a sobering anniversary of my own:  It’s been exactly twenty years—October of 1998—since I signed with my first literary manager off a screenplay I’d written called BONE ORCHARD. I spent nearly a decade in Hollywood—writing specs, doing favors, getting the lion’s share of my sustenance from craft-service tables—before a new opportunity of significance opened up for me. Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows neither victory nor defeat. Play on Napster. Yet here, you have a bunch of people who know shit about storytelling and yet think they know everything. The only thing worse for a writer than no representation is the wrong representation, one of those “life lessons learned the hard way” I alluded to in the essay above. Yes, I am aggressively querying/pitching literary agents, both in person in New York (last August) and via e-mail (ongoing). “Almost” gives one’s life a certain narrative context, because it’s the pursuit of our ambitions more than the fulfillment of them that defines the course our journeys take. For all the promising opportunities and earnest effort that ensued, though, my résumé covering that decade is exclusively an index of almosts:  the scripts that almost sold; the projects almost produced; the comics almost published. In the midst of all my impassioned polemics, lightheartedness is a virtue I need to more actively practice and promote in the months ahead…. As any Dodgers fan can attest, “almost” is a maddeningly insufficient return on investment of one’s time, effort, and emotion. Lots of points to reply to here, so I’m going to jump around a bit…. Not being able to relate to other sports fans that way is one of the reasons I don’t watch games any more. Maybe I'll see ya 'round. I think things are very different in Canada, where it’s not necessary to have an agent–you can just send your work straight to a lot of publishers–not the huge ones, but there are a lot of independent ones like mine who are great and will read your first few chapters and then ask for the rest. A good Dodgers game gets me out of my own head for a while, and, as the old Tin Pan Alley tune goes, if they don’t win it’s a shame… but it’s not anything I lose sleep over, ya know? Almost made you love me Almost made you cry Almost made you happy, baby. I just try to set goals for myself — which includes defined endgames and deadlines — and then put my energy into achieving them, rather than measuring my progress against external (and irrelevant) metrics. Play Song. You almost make a ringer. Look within. I talked a few months back, in “Changing the Narrative,” about how we ought to use our stories to challenge (rather than reinforce) some of our uncontested cultural beliefs — from our demigod-worshipping superhero epics to our cynical view of social institutions — and maybe that includes telling more stories about trying and losing? Hope you’re having a great holiday season, my friend. Young and naïve though I was, I nonetheless intuited I wasn’t likely to move the needle on my screenwriting career in New York—an ambition I was resolute about fulfilling—so I left the comforts of home behind for Los Angeles. You throw the horseshoe; it hits the peg then bounces off. Almost doesn't count Almost heard you saying You were finally free What was always missing for you, baby You'd found it in me But you can't get to heaven Half off the ground Everybody knows Almost doesn't count I can't keep on lovin' you One foot outside the door Almost Doesn't Count. You know? They warn you in school making it in Hollywood is difficult, but they never really explain how unfair it can be. And take it from this cynical idealist that there is real hope now for a fairer, cleaner, more equitable world — the 21st century we deserve — but it will mean systemically reforming our economic policies, our justice system, our extractivist practices, and our consumerist mindset/habits. . Play 1. Al Gore’s recent documentary An Inconvenient Sequel:  Truth to Power is a four-decade diary of “almosts,” in which he admits to feelings of personal failure at having yet to achieve his life’s pursuit:  substantially curbing climate change. But, I’m discovering, just because they accept them doesn’t mean they ever actually get to them! Thanks for taking the time to share all that. I am not at all shy about pitching my projects or sending materials because it’s a process I’ve been through many, many times as a screenwriter: When you write a spec script, your agents typically “go wide” with it, meaning they send it simultaneously (usually on a Friday for what’s known as a “weekend read”) to all the buyers in the marketplace (studios and prodcos) in an attempt to get some heat on it and get it sold. . Yeah, there are a lot of great proverbs about trying and failing, including these and the one from Teddy Roosevelt that Michael cited above. I don’t know — see the penultimate paragraph of the essay above for the odds on that. It happens a lot. In the event you don’t keep track of these things, the Los Angeles Dodgers lost the World Series last month, four games to one, to the Boston Red Sox. Brandy Lyrics. It’s a condition called confidence without competence. “Recognizing that it is unrealistic to imagine we will ever achieve a one-to-one correspondence between incidents of malfeasance and SEC Enforcement staff, we’d better plan to do everything we can to increase our hit-rate per investigation opened, and should commit our staff resources carefully, which is to say, consciously”.   . What does Almost Doesn't Count mean? Not that poverty is desirable or easy; that’s not what I’m talking about. And the problem with storytelling is that alarmingly few people — including many, many successful writers and filmmakers — really understand the mechanics/principles behind it, and yet everyone thinks they know how to tell a story because they’ve been watching movies their whole life! Almost doesn't count Almost heard you saying You were finally free What was always missing for you, baby You'd found it in me But you can't get to heaven Half off the ground Everybody knows Almost doesn't count I can't keep on lovin' you One foot outside the door I hear a funny hesitation That kind of cynicism ultimately poisoned a lot of very meaningful relationships in my life that I mourn to this day. So maybe I'll be here. Likewise, since I’ve become less focused on selling material after repeatedly failing to do so, I’ve been able to redirect that anxious energy into, ya know, living life, which has in turn made my fiction better; I have more of substance to say. If it took two decades to get from the former piece of work—and point of view—to the latter, then I’d say that was time well spent. Look ahead. “Almost” gives one’s life a certain narrative context, because it’s the pursuit of our ambitions more than the fulfillment of them that defines the course our journeys take. Looking left or right (e.g., “Well, I’m doing more than that bum” … or … “Why aren’t I doing as much as that superstar?”) never lands in a good place. Most of us won’t be lauded beyond our circles of family and friends. B: "I asked you to clean your room this weekend before company comes, and almost doesn't count!" In doing so, I define for myself what success is, and then hold myself accountable for my progress. Mothers in war- and famine-ravaged countries, on the march daily and deciding which child to leave by the side of the road to die because they can’t carry both any longer, never wonder if they’ll make it big. Sometimes someone deserving — someone who’s “paid their dues” — gets that break, and sometimes those who haven’t sacrificed anything at the altar of Hollywood nonetheless fall into big-time careers; the latter happens a lot more often than folks may realize. There’s no fill-in field for “almost” on a bank-deposit slip. Play 10. When you finally realize that, there’s nowhere else you’d rather be. But I’m glad you posted it here — thank you. Almost made you love me. Nearly doing something is not the same as actually doing it. Start Station. When you first arrive in Hollywood, good luck getting anyone with even a modicum of clout to give you the time of day. A tool to keep us working harder and buying more so the rich got richer — all through the false promise that one day we’d be rich, too! ... " is an Grammy-award nominated R&B ballad written by Shelly Peiken and Guy Roche for Brandy's second studio album Never Say Never. Happy New Year! Play Song. Almost made you cry. Released: Jan 1998 Label: Atlantic Records Facebook Twitter Songs. And by the time that finally happened, most—though not all—of the would-be filmmakers I came up with had all long since gone back to… wherever it was they’d come from. Have You Ever? Writer: Guy Roche Many names you’d absolutely recognize from TV and movies are underserving, even untalented people; I’ve witnessed it firsthand (repeatedly), and I have credible friends who work at the lofty rungs of the television biz who will testify to the fact that a lot of showrunners are lazy no-talents who do none of the work and take all of the credit. But I realized that I don’t do what I do in order to “get big” or to receive validation. Scoring a manager at 22 years old only confirmed what I already knew about myself: I was the shit! I have too much to say about all of this … to actually say it. Baseball, in fact, serves to remind us that we lose a hell of a lot more often than we win in life—that Second Best only means you’re First Loser—and the point of the whole goddamn thing, really, is simply to keep going back to the ballpark every day. You'd found it in me. more », Sheet Music  But I never get discouraged by a “pass” (either a formally issued rejection letter or rejection by “no response”), because I want someone who absolutely loves my work, prioritizes it, and wants to be in business with me. In some cases, an increase in one area can make up for a lack in another. Bluekush21 Hebrew Israelite. You study for a career in the arts, and you get one—simple as that. Love Cry by Four Tet (2009) Vocals / Lyrics Electronic / Dance. But everybody knows. . ​ I am so looking forward to your book, YOUR book! Raw, natural talent Get instant explanation for any acronym or abbreviation that hits you anywhere on the web! I’m just happy to come back the next day and hope for the best once again. But I ain’t sittin’ on my hands waiting it out, either, and I hope my fellow cynical idealists are doing likewise. Persistence I almost won the powerball. For me, Dodgers baseball gave me something I’d been sorely lacking: a hobby — that is to say, something I care about that’s nonetheless relatively low-stakes. Thank you for the kind words about the piece above and the book. Meaning: Don’t compare your physique with the guy at the next station; compare it instead with the pictures you took of yourself in front of the bathroom mirror last month. “Almost” doesn’t count. As a writer, both blogger and author, it’s a constant struggle even to get people who read and love my work to share it or write a review. Pure dumb luck What they don’t tell you in school, though, is that when you turn your passions into your profession, you often do so at the expense of the joy you once took in those pastimes. You … BONE ORCHARD was the slick and vacuous work of a kid without a worldview, emulating his cinematic idols, chasing the validation of commercial success; Escape from Rikers Island, on the other hand, is all me—for better or worse, like it or not. What was always missing for you, babe. When you do, you congratulate yourself.​ In other words, we’ve got a limited budget, and there’s a bigger degree of difficulty in going after big banks with powerful lawyers. I’m a hopeful cynic too. Acts 26:28-29. It still sparks a fond memory, enough that I passively rooted for them–not enough to actually turn on the TV, but enough to regret their loss. I think a lot about how our standard American measurement of success, Sean, and it tends to be materially-based. Almost doesn't count. The ultimate authority we are all answerable to, after all, is that man in the mirror. And I thought there was an opportunity in this post to talk honestly about that and try to extract some kind of meaning or value from it. So the right champion for me is either out there or isn’t; I’ll either find them or I won’t. Let me rephrase that: It was a tool. Nihilism is anathema to our great projects of democracy and civilization, and I for one can’t wait till we’re past this very dark period in American history. As a lifelong mentor, I’ve seen some kids I invested years and tears into wind up with life sentences. Brighton Music Hall presented by Citizens Bank, Boston, MA. Have fun:) EADGBe *****Please Rate***** Dsus2 [xx0230] (D2) Tha A word that doesn't count except in horseshoes, hand grenades, and goverment work. I came to baseball relatively late in life—around forty—as I recounted in “Spring Fever,” the gist of which was this:  For whatever reason, neither I nor any of my boyhood pals were born with the “sports gene.”  We were all pop-culture fanatics, more likely to be found at the local comic shop than Little League field. Here we were, at my local sports club, with me trying — at forty — to get myself into the kind of shape I’d never in my life known, surrounded by some of the most beautiful and fit people in the country. Don’t forget to have fun. ​ From the cruel cruel world. Hollywood ain’t like that. Never Say Never. Didn't I didn't I. To say “‘almost’ doesn’t count,” then, is to imply the very expenditure of effort is only justified by a preordained guarantee of success. Some more phrases from our dictionary similar to almost doesn't count all work and no play makes jack a dull … almost went into a coma earning this di… alone in a crowd aluminum shower all-conquering alright my babber all's well that ends well almighty dollar alright me lover all's one alma mater all y'all's all's fair in love and war along the lines Post was not sent - check your email addresses! After a while, you just can’t hide how full of shit you are — your bosses will see you can’t deliver on what you promised… and they’ll fire or demote you for it. Almost. I wish you nothing but personal and creative prosperity in 2019 — and fun, too. Loss is normal. It’s pure misery and it’s counterproductive — even destructive — to a writer’s career. I’m talking Whitney Houston sized opportunity (literally). <3. Careers have been built on it. A: "Come on Mom, I almost cleaned my whole room!" You can’t display it on a shelf or post it on Instagram; you just carry it in your heart and be content with it. But you can't get to [G] Heaven [C] Half off the [G] ground [C] Everybody [Em/A] knows [D] Almost doesn't cou [G] nt I was in my early twenties when I signed with my first manager, my early thirties before I found my second. I can even recall some of the names–Steve Garvey, Ron Cey, Tommy LaSorda, and even the radio guy–Vin Scully. I watched a lot of people, so passionate and deserving of careers, flame out for no reason other than bad dumb luck. In addition to screenwriting, I’d had experience as a film and video editor, so I started cutting USC thesis shorts pro bono. 1. 5. Loss is…not that big a deal. Almost doesn't count. Brandy generally contains 35–60% alcohol by volume (70–120 US proof) and is typically taken as an after-dinner drink. I have unlimited clean water, a temperature-controlled home and car, and more food than I need. Going for the “big dream” is an inherently privileged problem. Still, whether or not we’ve realized the personal and/or professional goals we set for ourselves in youth, one can’t reach midlife without facing the sweat-chilling question Now what? Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd. We're doing our best to make sure our content is useful, accurate and safe.If by any chance you spot an inappropriate comment while navigating through our website please use this form to let us know, and we'll take care of it shortly. Play 2. I’m currently trying to get the manuscript set up with an agent/publisher, and we know, courtesy this post, what typically follows the “trying” phase! A fellow environmentalist recently said something interesting to me: He thinks the reason the Trumpublicans shift immediately into aggression and/or anger when confronted with issues like income inequality, climate change, racial profiling — any of those hot-button political topics — is because buried somewhere in their secret heart, they hate themselves for selling out to an opportunistic, amoral pig like Trump. (And that Teddy Roosevelt was himself a committed conservationist — who helped protect the Palisades — makes those words all the more personally encouraging.). Excellent essay, Sean. As recently as a few years ago, I wouldn’t have known, much less cared, who won or lost this Series—or even who played in it. And unlike, say, Trump, who, as John Oliver recently observed, “has failed upward for seventy-two straight years,” the former vice president knows from monumental setbacks. A comment I made on Mythcreants (https://mythcreants.com/blog/why-storytelling-advice-is-such-a-mess/) a while ago: To be a success (by whatever you define as success) in most fields you need five things, in varying amounts: Anyway, there I was, twenty-two years old and only a few months out of school, and everything was unfolding right on schedule. Indeed, Diana: I think as we get older, we come to develop a more refined, more mature notion of what success is. Failure sucks, and it’s gonna happen way more often to you than success, and maybe that’s something we should be more comfortable discussing openly. Year after year, whether or not we had anything to boast about when we went home for the holidays (an experience we referred to as “Tribal Council,” because it was where you went to account for your time and stand judgment for it), we stayed at it, together, equally invested in each other’s success—because if one could succeed, there was hope for all of us. FAVORITE Truthfully. We do (necessarily) reconfigure our perception of success as we age, as we both succeed and fail and attain a fuller sense of what those life-shaping experiences mean. Far from crushing him, the grind of recurring disappointment has only sharpened his resolve. I try not to compare my career with that of my colleagues, or my personal goalposts — like, for instance, home ownership — with where my peers are on that same trajectory. Almost doesn’t count. What I thought was ‘success’ in my 20’s sure isn’t. Our lives will contain many more of these than the huge, noteworthy ones. A beautifully, perfectly expressed sentiment, Erik — an essay unto itself, really! Very kind of you to say! Thanks for being such a faithful friend of the blog throughout the year, Cathleen. In part, it’s just a mind set. As always, the feedback I’ve received has compelled me to think deeper about the issue at hand — the very aspect of blogging I find most rewarding! Play 7. My definition is totally different. 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